Feeling Overwhelmed, Frustrated or Stuck?
It’s not you, it’s the patterns you haven’t broken.


This isn’t therapy. This is transformation.
Self Help LA & OC has been changing lives since 2009. With a highly-trained team and tens of thousands of sessions delivered, we’ve built a reputation for one thing: results. We don’t waste months circling the same story — we spend 10% understanding the problem and 90% creating real, measurable change.
The M.I.N.D. Method™ — a proprietary process created by our founder, Armando Perez — that blends neuroscience, subconscious rewiring, and real-time behavior shifts.
93% of our clients notice a significant improvement after just one session.You don’t need years of therapy.You need a season of intentional change — and a method that actually works.
What We Help You Break Through
Because it’s not just about talking — it’s about rewiring what’s keeping you stuck.
Break Unhealthy Emotional Patterns
Tired of attracting the same pain in different forms? You’re not cursed — you’re patterned. Let’s fix that.
Heal Relationship Struggles
Romantic, family, friends — connection shouldn’t feel like survival. We help you repair the relationship blueprint from the inside out.
Rebuild Confidence & Self-Worth
You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re just wired to doubt yourself. That ends here.
Improve Communication & Emotional Expression
No more shutting down. No more exploding. Learn to speak your truth without fear, guilt, or regret.
Set Boundaries That Actually Hold
You’re allowed to say no. You’re allowed to protect your peace. We’ll help you do both without collapsing or people-pleasing.
Before the Breakthrough... and After the Shift
This is what happens when you stop coping — and start rewiring.
Before Working With Us
After Working With Us
Hear What Real People Are Saying
When you heal the root, everything changes.
"I came in broken. One session in, I felt seen for the first time in my life."
Briana S.
"I’ve been in therapy for 6 years. What I got here in 90 minutes changed more than all of it combined."
J. Thomas
"I didn’t just fix my relationship. I finally stopped abandoning myself."
David R.
Curious How This Actually Works?
Let me show you why we’re not like anything you’ve tried before.
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Feeling Overwhelmed, Frustrated, or Stuck?
It’s not you… it’s the patterns you haven’t broken.
Did you know your emotions are simply alert signals?
They’re your body’s “check engine” light, warning you something is out of alignment before it breaks down completely.
Every wave of anxiety, burst of anger, or moment of overwhelm is your body trying to get your attention.
The problem isn’t the feeling, it’s not knowing what it means or what to do next. That’s why I created
Your Emotional Check Engine Light: 5 Steps to Pinpoint What’s Really Going On
A simple, step-by-step process to help you identify the root cause of your emotions so you can take control before they take over.
In this free guide, you'll discover:

Ready to Break the Pattern?
Patterns can be broken. Nervous systems can be rewired.
And identities can be upgraded — if you're willing to commit.
This is your moment. Not someday. Not when it gets worse.
Now.
Our Locations

Los Angeles County
Downey, CA. 90240

Orange County
Santa Ana, CA. 92706